
I have been apartment hunting this month (only 6 days into January). New transplanted to NYC – I am trying to find the right place that will suit my needs and budget. I know it will not be the perfect apartment or meet all my desires such as having a large chef’s kitchen, a full size bedroom and a bathroom where I can actually fit in the bathtub, etc .,etc.
What I do know is that I will have a place to call “my own.”
All the things you have heard or read about Manhattan rental prices and the little cramped spaces are so true within my budget. If your tree is growing money you probably have a nice 800sf-plus apartment. That is big in Manhattan terms! As for me, my tree is bare just like the trees outside with no leaves but I know whatever I do find – it will be just right for me.
One fine day, I will get a book published, my company starts making money and my career takes me to new heights is when I will get my dream sophisticated apartment (ok, I am now daydreaming—back to reality for a second).
As of yesterday, I have seen a total of eight apartments from SoHo to Mid-town to Murray Hill. I have decided to stick in Manhattan (to have my first year real city experience) and on the West side. I am sticking to my West coast roots (not really) but it’s convenient to work in Chelsea and I really like how it’s on the 1,2,3 and A,C,E lines because they connect to everything.
My broker Jan has been wonderful and has so much patience. The first time we met — I saw two SoHo studios and was so shocked by the “shoebox” sized apartments. I didn’t even have to walk in to see the entire place. Once he saw my reaction – he knew what I was thinking and he reassured me that we would find the right place (if you ever need a broker — call me because Jan is so great to work with!).
It was an eye opening moment for me.

We have been hitting the pavement, my feet are sore, my face frozen but with determination I now have two places that I like and a few more to look at this week before I make my final decision. This process has given me a lot of time to reflect on what my expectations are and I have decided that even with a little little place with a little little kitchen and a little little closet – I can make it work and I will be happy. I will still happily cook in cramp quarters and have people over, I will eat out at amazing restaurants, I will get to know my neighborhood and I know someone will learn my name.
Most of all, I will have a place to call “home.”
All this writing, talking and thinking of home has gotten to me a bit. I miss my family dearly. Maybe, it’s because it has been full speed ahead at work (and I am still loving my job!), I’m exhausted at night and I think way way way too much, and my body is still not fully recovered from being ill over the holidays.
I know that this feeling is a natural part of the transition period of moving to a new city with new surroundings and I am a bit out of my comfort zone. When I miss home and family I think about food. Right now, I want is some good home cookin’ Lao food that my grandma would always make for my siblings and I. Papaya salad (extra spicy please with little crabs), sticky rice, roasted duck, rice noodle (kao piek sehn) and some minced spiced meat (laab) with beautiful steamed vegetables….
My grandmother is a fabulous cook and I miss her and her Lao food. This past weekend as I was vegging out, watching Anthony Bourdain and working on my Lao recipes for my cookbook — I decided to make a dish that I have titled: Lao Ginger Shrimp – inspired by my grandmother and aunt.

This dish is usually served as an appetizer before dinner and is fabulous with a cold glass of Beer Lao on a hot evening.The spiciness of the dish and the aroma of the fresh ginger brought me a little closer to home. I have come to accept that I can bring a little bit of home to NYC with delicious Lao dishes even though I may be eating it by myself, it may have some American ingredients and not enjoyed with a group of people. The process of making it and taste just makes me a tiny bit closer to family.
The shrimp is raw but soaked in rice wine vinegar. The vinegar creates a reaction and cooks the shrimp (think Ceviche from Peru). This process does thoroughly cook the shrimp and with other spices such as lime, Thai chili, fish sauce, garlic and freshly chopped ginger – it is a heavenly combination on the palate. The tenderness of the shrimp, the fresh taste of the ginger and the spiciness from the chili is music to my palate. Lao dishes are known for their fresh ingredients and spices.
Thank you grandma for sharing your cooking skills with me and for never letting me forget my roots.
Lao Ginger Shrimp
Serves 4
12 to 18 raw medium sized Shrimp
½ cup of Rice Wine Vinegar
4 green Thai Chili, thinly chopped
3 cloves of garlic, chopped
3 tbs. of finely chopped fresh ginger
3 tbs. of fish sauce
½ a squeezed lime
Directions:
- Peel and devein the raw shrimp and with tail intact.
- Bring the shrimp to a medium size bowl and pour the rice wine vinegar over the raw shrimp. Let it soak in the rice wine vinegar for 10 minutes in the refrigerator.
- After ten minutes, drain the shrimp.
- Using the same bowl mix the remaining ingredients with the shrimp.
- Serve immediately on a nice platter with chop sticks for each guest to use. You can also serve this dish with rice to offset the spiciness or use less chili.
Enjoy, my friends!